[30Daysto30K] Day 6 - Becoming a Magnet for Money

Everyone has a relationship with money. And... for most, it's a CRAPPY relationship.  If you ever want to know what your relationship with money is like, well... checking your bank account is the first place to look.

Today, I just wanted to spend some time sharing a few of my most valuable and important topics, ideas and philosophies around money.  It's a topic I'm extremely passionate about because transforming my relationship with money truly changed my life.

And if you want to dive deeper, I suggest going throught The Mind Your Money Audio Series I created here:
https://www.jameswedmoretraining.com/products/mind-your-money-30-day-challenge

Ok, let's get into some...

Principle 1: More Offers in Front of More People

I can't stress this enough. This business is the business of selling. And when you think about the Paretto Principle, 80% of your time and energy MUST be spent on selling. Create LESS... SELL more. And then sell again. If you want to make more money in 2026, put more offers in front of more people, and you will. PERIOD. 

Important: "more offers" doesn't mean more products.  It just means more offers. (We sell BBD for 4 months AFTER our launch... and it's a different offer every time. - don't worry more on that later in the challenge.) Creating more products doesn't mean more money... it simply means more work. In fact, creating your product IS the hardest thing to do. It takes the most amount of work... so you might as well reap the benefits of all that work, right? 

So, take stalk of how often (or how little) you sell... and make it the NUMBER ONE priority in your business. 

PRINCIPLE 2: Remove ALL Resistance to Sales

If you're selling more, NO PART of you can have any resistance to selling at ALL.  Yet it is normal to experience these "blocks." Most do... especially people who CARE. You are a good person, so you don't want to take advantage of others or be greedy.  I get it. But any distorted beliefs preventing selling MUST be removed. 

Here are some of the most common "blocks" we hear ALL the time. Read through, and feel in the body if any of these seem to have "truth" to you.

1. "Selling is wrong, immoral or bad."
2. "I'm just not good at sales." 
3. "I feel bad taking money from others." 
4. "If people don't buy, it means there is something wrong with me (or my stuff)." 
5. "I'm just not deserving of the money I want to make."
6. "My stuff just isn't good enough."
7. "I don't want to come off as salesy."
8. "I don't want to bother anyone."
9.  "I just can't handle rejection." 
10.  "what if it doesn't work for them?"
11. "I can't handle the responsibility."

If even the tiniest part of you believes ANY of these to be true, your EGO will find ways to advoid selling powerfully and effectively to your people. It's COSTING you money and ENERGY to believe the above BS. (belief system)

Here's what I suggest:

Step 1: Read through the statements above.

Step 2: Write down ANY of them that have a "twinge" of truth for you.

Step 3: Read the statement (or a variation that suits you) outloud three times. 

Step 4: Write down and get clear on WHAT the consequence of this belief will be on your life. Where will you end up in 2026 if you live by this lie? What opportunities will you have missed? What dissapoints will you experience?

Step 5: Read the statement again. Then add a FULL breathe. (Repeat three times).  Note any changes with a simply adding of the breahte.

Step 6: Replace it. We must begin to REPLACE the old with something new... something true. Let something true come through to YOU. Something that is in COHERENCE with the outcomes you truly desire. And write this new TRUTH down.

Step 7: Read and breathe this NEW statement three times. Read it. Add the full breathe and repeat. 

Step 8: Repeat this process for ALL the "limiting sales blocks" you discovered.

Step 9 - BONUS: repreat Step 7 every day for 2 weeks and watch as the subtle shifts begin to occur. 

Principle 3: What Selling REALLY is

Selling is creating and maintaing the BALANCE. There is a secret to the Universe that very few people are aware of.  You can see it in nature constantly. The Universe demands balance. Harmony. We live in the Polarity of all things... the give and take, the back and forth, the inhale and the exhale. 

That's ALL selling is. It's maintaining the BALANCE.

You GIVE your expertise, your time, wisdom and energy. Selling simply RETURNS that energy to create balance. 

What most NEVER EVER understand is the simple truth of how little VALUE one of your students can actually receive if they don't assist in creating this balance. This is why takers are always BROKE. They have created an inbalance. This creates distortion and prevents more from coming in. 

But balance AMPLIFIES the energy. And that's all you are here to do.  You EXHALE... as you ask your prospects to INHALE. GIVE... RECIEVE. SEND... RETURN.  

Principle 4: Understanding the Frequency of Money

Money is a very POWERFUL energy. You must understand it's true vibrational nature to attract it. For if you live and think and operate in scarcity, it will always allude you.

The trick is simple: remove "money" from the equation completely. Tune to the feeling of what that money GIVES you. Abundance. Luxury. Adventure. Fun. Presence with Family. YOU ARE WHERE YOUR ATTENTION IS. Keep it there. 

Money is the middle man. So skip the middle man. Source is what provides all. And often times, what you desire can be attracted and manifested without the middle mad. 

For example... currently, Jenni and I are on our Honeymoon. I've paid for the entire trip including first class plane tickets, 5 star hotels SOLELY with Credit Card and Hotel Points. We are here "for free."

Our generous friends and family have also paid for luxurious meals and experiences for us. None of this we expected or even asked for! 

When we checked in... we got a free upgrade! We've also received FOUR free bottles of champaigne in 3 days... we don't even drink! haha! 

We hired a photographer to do a honeymoon photoshoot. She revealed she had followed me for years, arrived with a box of macaroons as a gift and then gave us ALL the extra photos they shot free of charge! (That's like an extra $600!)  I could go on... but this is just the first 3 days! 

Basically, we are experiencing this incredible 5-Star Luxurious Honeymoon experience, and the only money I've spent since I've been here are on a few uber rides. 

Now, you can use your logical left-brain, analytical brain to say your "ya, but..." and REASON your way through my above story... or you can see one more REAL example of how you can have and attract what you want WITHOUT money!

But you must MASTER your ability to stay in the FREQUENCY. 

And I could write a novel on the "how," but it's simple: master WHERE you place your attention... your frequncy follows. And frequency is everything. And behind every "upset" or disempowering feeling is a BELIEF (stuck attention) that no longer serves you. Let it go.  

Principle 5: Let Go to Let In

Saving money is BS. And most people aren't actually saving money, they are HOLDING ON. Holding on maintains a frequency of SCARCITY if you aren't careful. If you didn't KNOW more was coming, you would not spend, give or let go, would you?

In the US, the dollar lost 11% of it's value in 2025. This mean, if you "saved" a $100 all year, you LOST $11.  You were left with $89. Yet your whole life you were told to save, save, save. Ya, so banks can take your money and lend it! 

Instead, you must MASTER the ability to SPEND SKILLFULLY. Invest your money so it goes to work making you more money. (My portfolio increased by 125% in 2025!) 

Invest in things that give you your TIME back. ...that gives you growth in your business.  ...or yourself. 

KNOW what the ROI is. And if there is no ROI... why spend it? 

Now in your personal life, my philosohy is: choose EXPERIENCES over STUFF. It's the compulsive consumer purchases of junk we continue to accumulate that adds up and creates real problems.  We spend our money on junk we don't need, that clutter our lives, and we can't resell. 

Collect memories, not junk. My advice: any time that new "widget" comes out that you want so badly, wait three days. If you don't want it EVEN MORE in three days, DO NOT BUY IT.

But bottomline: "holding tightly" to money constricts the flow of money. You must let it flow out for more to flow it. BUT be mindful on HOW you spend it. 

Principle #6: Your Perception of Self

Yes. Your perception of Self is deeply correlated to money. And it makes sense, really.

Money is the tool and symbol we use to exchange energies.

And what you "give," (your product or service) was birthed from YOU.

If you are still blind to your inherent value, your offspring (products) will inherent this distortion as well.

You won't see the value in what you deliver because you don't see the value within yourself. As a result, you either undersell, underpitch or underprice. All these result in money in your pocket. 

You will also WASTE your time because you don't value your time when you don't value yourself. And if you waste time, you WASTE money, because time is money. 

Ok, that's it for today. Lot's to chew on :-)